Author: jason

A New Year for New Beginnings

A New Year for New Beginnings

At times in the past, I have been pretty dismissive of New Year’s Resolutions. Why resolve to do something you know you’re not going to do, right? With that attitude, of course, it’s no wonder they never work out. As I’ve gotten older, though, I’m finding more value — and wisdom — in making resolutions.

The best argument, I think, is that without goals, it’s really hard to make measurable progress. Additionally, if you’re not striving toward something, you just end up… somewhere. It makes sense, then, to be specific about what you hope to achieve. You may miss the mark ultimately, but having a mark in the first place sets you up for success.

Another important aspect of these resolutions is the demarcation of a clean start. I’m a big fan of “I haven’t done foo in so many months” or “I’ve done foo every day for this many months”. I find it helpful to apply that logic to improving myself. Have a bad habit you want to break? A habit you’d like to form? A sin you’d like to break free from? January 1, while it may be some arbitrary line in the sky, offers a great starting line for whatever effort you choose for yourself.

It’s a new day and a new year. Clean your slate, state your intentions, and get to work.

Regardless of what you resolve to do, or whether you make specific plans or not, I hope this year is a good one for you and that the Lord shows you grace and favor.

Twenty Years of Favor

Twenty Years of Favor

Proverbs 18:22 tells us that “[h]e who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord.” This is as true today as it was thousands of years ago, and as it was 20 years ago, the day Angela and I were married.

It is hard to put into words what this amazing woman means to me. Because of her, I have a warm, beautiful home. Because of her, I have two amazing sons of whom I could not be more proud or love more deeply. Because of her, I’m a better man – and a better follower of Christ – than I was then, or, I think, would be without her. I owe everything I am to her, and to the God of ours that sent her to me.

To Angela, my beloved, happy 20th anniversary. May God grant us 40 more.

Home Video Advice

Home Video Advice

It’s Father’s Day weekend, and I find myself home alone, doing some backup maintenance on our home videos. I’m loving watching some of these old videos, some almost 17 years old. It’s beyond description getting to see the faces of family that are no longer with us — my Dad, Angela’s grandparents — and to get to hear their voices again. These videos are priceless to me. I wish we had more, especially of my Dad, so let me pass on this advice:

When you’re at a family gathering (Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter, birthdays, whatever) and you find yourself taking videos, make sure you get “the crowd”. There may be someone blowing out candles or opening a present, but scan the room. Get video of parents, grandparents, great grandparents, cousins, nephews, nieces, friends, party crashers. Get them speaking. One way or another, there’s going to come a day when you won’t be able to see those people again. You’re going to want see them — you’re going to want to hear their voices — and those videos are going to be the closest you’re going to get to speaking to that person again on this earth. Trust me. You’ll be glad you “wasted” the space.

Marcion and Getting Unhitched from the Old Testament

Marcion and Getting Unhitched from the Old Testament

This sure does sound familiar. It seems a lot of people today refuse to believe the God of the Old Testament, but refusing to believe doesn’t it make it not so. What’s old may be new again, but it’s still wrong. 🙂

Great post by DeYoung. Go read the whole thing.


Marcion’s theological errors (and there were many) came from one main root: he refused to believe that the God of the Old Testament was the same as the Father of the Lord Jesus Christ. Marcion simply could not believe in a God full of wrath and justice. So he threw away the Old Testament and took for his Bible a truncated version of Luke’s Gospel and selectively edited versions of Paul’s epistles. When all the cutting and pasting was finished, Marcion had the Christianity he wanted: a God of goodness and nothing else; a message of inspiring moral uplift; a Bible that does away with the uncomfortable bits about God’s wrath and hell. Marcionism was antinomian, idealistic about human potential, and skittish about dogma and rules.

Source: Marcion and Getting Unhitched from the Old Testament

New Blog Site

New Blog Site

It’s been a really long time since my last post. I have a new site, and new momentum to get back into “regular” blogging. Here’s hoping. 😛

The violence of football

The violence of football

In a recent interview with The New Republic, President Obama decried the violence of football, saying, “I’m a big football fan, but I have to tell you if I had a son, I’d have to think long and hard before I let him play football. And I think that those of us who love the sport are going to have to wrestle with the fact that it will probably change gradually to try to reduce some of the violence.”

So let me summarize: Boys playing football? Maybe not. Women in combat. No problem.

A day of professional triumph and personal tragedy

A day of professional triumph and personal tragedy

Today is a significant day for me for a couple of reasons. Professionally, today marks three years since we released GlassFish 3 and Java EE 6. Most of you probably don’t care much about that. Today also marks another three year anniversary of a more personal nature. It was today in 2009 that my dad was rushed to the hospital for what turns out to be the last time. I’ve written several times in various places about my dealing with my dad’s death; I don’t want to rehash that here. What I do want to do, though, is share a song.

Over the past few years, I’ve come across several songs that have helped deal with grief, express thoughts, etc. One in particular, is “Even If” by Kutless. I think the chorus sums things up about as nicely as can be done:

Even if the healing doesn’t come
And life falls apart
And dreams are still undone
You are God You are good
Forever faithful One
Even if the healing
Even if the healing doesn’t come

Here are the rest of the lyrics, followed by the video.

Sometimes all we have to hold on to
Is what we know is true of who You are
So when the heartache hits like a hurricane
That could never change who You are
And we trust in who You are

Even if the healing doesn’t come
And life falls apart
And dreams are still undone
You are God You are good
Forever faithful One
Even if the healing
Even if the healing doesn’t come

Lord we know your ways are not our ways
So we set our faith in who You are
Even though You reign high above us
You tenderly love us
We know Your heart
And we rest in who You are

You’re still the Great and Mighty One
We trust You always
You’re working all things for our good
We’ll sing your praise

You are God and we will bless You
As the Good and Faithful One
You are God and we will bless You
Even if the healing doesn’t come
Even if the healing doesn’t come

What Can Brown Do for You?

What Can Brown Do for You?

I recently ordered an item from an online store, a multiport, wireless router. I was pretty excited about getting it, so I was closely watching the tracking status on UPS’ site. Upon checking the status, I saw that it was delivered. Surprised as I’d been home all morning but pleased, I looked outside to find…nothing. I looked behind every bush, column, trash can, etc. The package simply wasn’t there.

Unsure where to start, I first tweeted my predicament:

@UPS says a package is on my porch, but it’s not. I wished they’d ring or knock & not just silently drop things off. Been home all morning

Before I could dig up a number to call, UPS responded:

@jasondlee Oh no! Let’s follow up to find out where it is. Please e-mail your track # + phone # to twitter@ups.com. ^ST @ups

Fast and friendly! I sent the email and in an hour or so, I got a call from the local UPS office. I explained the situation to her, and she said that she talked to the driver who confirmed he dropped it off, but she’d talk to him again and have him come back by.

A little while later, a UPS truck pulled up. When I met the driver on my porch, his first words were, “I screwed up”, which, to be honest, was pretty cool that he’d be that honest. As it turns out, he dropped it off on the wrong street. The home owner had already taken the package in, and wasn’t answering the door, so he left a note. As disappointed as I was at the delay, the driver ‘fessed up and was trying to make it right, which is about all I can ask, I guess. It’s an easy mistake to make.

This morning, the same driver pulled up and delivered my package. He apologized for the mix up and went on his way. My story, then, does have a happy ending. I’ve used UPS for many years now, and I’ve always been very happy with them. This is the first time I’ve ever had this sort of issue with them, and, once they were made aware of the situation, they were very quick and proactive in making it right, even promising to replace the item should it not be recovered. Due to a few bad apples tossing packages, etc., they often get a lot of bad press, so I think it’s important to share this to show that they do care and do a great job on the whole. I know I’m happy with them. 🙂